Name Calling
I don't do negative name calling in my home. I Believe that to call someone something is either a blessing or a curse depending on how you identify them, and in many cases children become a version of what you call them. When I named my children I considered their names carefully so that each time that I would call them I would be declaring something good about them. No one that I know of in their right mind likes being called out of their name (being called something that they don't prefer). Neither does anyone that I know of in their right mind want to be called the bad things that they have done or experienced. I believe that it is necessary call out events (recognize the truth of situations) and behaviors both positive and negative (recognize the choices that are being made) so that we can grow and/or celebrate, but it is never our job to call out people (make a conclusion concerning their worth). I would even venture to say that this includes ourselves...